Ready to transform your sex life? Let’s get to work.

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I’m Matt Valentine-Chase, and I believe you deserve a sex life that feels authentic, exciting, and entirely your own. If you’ve ever felt like traditional therapy is a bit too much "nodding and humming" and not enough "doing," you’re in the right place.

I work differently. While I am a professionally trained therapist, I’m also an active part of the kink and adult lifestyle scenes. This means I bring a real-world, sex-positive perspective to our sessions. I don't just listen; I offer advice, provide actionable insights, and I’m not afraid to use a bit of humor to lighten the load.

 

What You Gain from Our Sessions

 

When we work together, we move past the "problem" and toward a solution that fits your life. Here is what you can expect to achieve:

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• Clarity and Confidence: Move from feeling "stuck" or "unsure" to having a clear map of your desires and how to communicate them.

• Skillful Exploration: Whether you are curious about BDSM, the adult lifestyle, or simply want to spice up a "vanilla" routine, I help you take that next step safely and expressively.

• Freedom from Shame: We create a space where nothing is off-limits. You can "tell it like it is" without fear of judgment, helping you shed the pressure of how others think you should be having sex.

• Physical and Emotional Connection: We’ll work through the mental blocks behind performance concerns—like erection issues, timing, or physical discomfort—to get you back into your body and enjoying the moment.

 

Solutions for Every Path

 

Whether you’re navigating a specific challenge or looking for a "sexual upgrade," I provide expert support for:

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• Breaking Cycles: Overcoming overstimulation or compulsions (porn, frequency, or specific types of sex) that no longer serve you.

• Deepening Intimacy: Solving commitment fears or feelings of disconnection with partners.

• Navigating the Scene: Specialized support for the Kink/BDSM community, adult lifestyle participants, and sex workers.

• Reclaiming Your Spark: Rediscovering your libido after loss, trauma, or a period of feeling "shut down."

• Inclusive Identity Support: Navigating sex and orientation—I am a proud ally and practitioner for the entire LGBTQ+ community, trans, non-binary, intersex, and questioning individuals.

 

How We Connect

 

I work with clients internationally via online sessions, bringing my London-based expertise directly to your screen.

Everyone is welcome here. Men, women, trans and non-binary folk, gay, straight, bi, and everywhere in between. If you’re human and you have a heart (and a libido), you belong in my practice.

• 1 Hour: £90.00 (not available for new clients please book 1.5 hour)

• 1.5 Hours: £120.00

• 2 Hours: £150.00

 

All currencies and Crypto are accepted. I also offer general therapy (non-sex related) for those seeking a warm, direct approach to life’s broader challenges (see general therapy website).

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🚨 Important Note: Prices are increasing on April 26th, 2026. You can secure my "legacy" rates right now by booking a three-session "Deep Dive" package below.

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[Click Here to Book Your Session Direct] Or use the contact page to send me an enquiry.