Ready to transform your sex life? Let’s get to it...

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I’m Matt Valentine-Chase, and I believe you deserve a sex life that feels authentic, exciting, and entirely your own. If you’ve ever felt like traditional therapy is a bit too much "nodding and humming" and not enough "doing," you’re in the right place.

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I work differently. While I am a professionally trained therapist, I’m also an active part of the kink and adult lifestyle scenes. This means I bring a real-world, sex-positive perspective to our sessions. I don't just listen; I offer advice, provide actionable insights, and I’m not afraid to use a bit of humor to lighten the load.

 

What You Gain from Our Sessions

 

When we work together, we move past the "problem" and toward a solution that fits your life. Here is what you can expect to achieve:

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• Clarity and Confidence: Move from feeling "stuck" or "unsure" to having a clear map of your desires and how to communicate them.

• Skillful Exploration: Whether you are curious about BDSM, the adult lifestyle, or simply want to spice up a "vanilla" routine, I help you take that next step safely and expressively.

• Freedom from Shame: We create a space where nothing is off-limits. You can "tell it like it is" without fear of judgment, helping you shed the pressure of how others think you should be having sex.

• Physical and Emotional Connection: We’ll work through the mental blocks behind performance concerns—like erection issues, timing, or physical discomfort—to get you back into your body and enjoying the moment.

 

Solutions for Every Path

 

Whether you’re navigating a specific challenge or looking for a "sexual upgrade," I provide expert support for:

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• Breaking Cycles: Overcoming overstimulation or compulsions (porn, frequency, or specific types of sex) that no longer serve you.

• Deepening Intimacy: Solving commitment fears or feelings of disconnection with partners.

• Navigating the Scene: Specialized support for the Kink/BDSM community, adult lifestyle participants, and sex workers.

• Reclaiming Your Spark: Rediscovering your libido after loss, trauma, or a period of feeling "shut down."

• Inclusive Identity Support: Navigating sex and orientation—I am a proud ally and practitioner for the entire LGBTQ+ community, trans, non-binary, intersex, and questioning individuals.

 

How We Connect

 

I work with clients internationally via online sessions, bringing my London-based expertise directly to your screen.

Everyone is welcome here. Whether you identify as a man, woman, trans, or non-binary—or if you simply fall somewhere in between—if you are human and you have a heart (and a libido), you belong in my practice.

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The Vault: 3-Session Deep Dives

 

The most impactful way to work with me. To ensure we move past surface-level talk and into the heart of your intimacy and pleasure, I prioritize 3-session "Vault" containers. This structure allows us the time and space to foster deep, sustainable, and lasting results.

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• The Vault (3-Session Container): £555.00

  • Includes: 3 online sessions - 90 minutes each, priority scheduling, personalized follow-up support, and the focused attention required for true transformation.

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General Practice & Individual Sessions

 

While I recommend The Vault for the best results, I understand that sometimes you just need a singular space to land.

• Individual Session (1.5 Hours): £185.00 (Recommended for first-time clients.)

• Individual Session (2 Hours): £240.00

 

PS: If you are looking for general, non-sex-related therapy, I offer a warm, direct approach to life’s broader challenges. Please visit my general therapy website for details on those specific sessions.

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Important Notes

 

• Bookings: Please use the [Book Now] link to view all available slots, packages, and concessions.

• Payments: All major currencies and Crypto are accepted.