Why Your Identity Doesn't Have to Be Stagnant I am writing this to clear something up. I am not necessarily doing it to clear it up for you; I am clearing it up for me. Out loud. In public. In full view. It’s how I do things. When you look at my process in this way, it might—just might—subliminally give you "permission" to be you. That’s what it’s all about. Being the real, true, authentic, beautiful you. Let’s Talk About Sex I’m gay. I am not gay. I am more bisexual. Often,

Once upon a time, I would feel chaotic, lost, all over the place. Much of this confusion would be triggered and exacerbated by friends' (or foes') judgment and attitude towards my, apparent, multiple personalities. I remember conducting a workshop on healing and "being aware of energy flow" in Manchester, around 2004. A close friend of mine was in the audience; he glared at me with an undisguised look of shock. As the workshop progressed, he began to relax and started having