OMG, what has the world come to? A sex coach telling you to stop having sex?! I know, I know—but stay with me. This is the advice I give to many couples who come to me when they are navigating major issues in their sex lives. When I say "major," I mean they feel they’ve "tried everything" (they often haven’t), and at least one of them is so damn frustrated that they actually dread the next time sex is initiated. See the problem? The Pressure to Perform I have lost count of th

Why Slowing Down is the Real Key to Her Most Explosive Orgasm. Men, are you ready? Prepare to deliver the best oral… of her life. Unless you already know, in which case: collect your "best oral of the year" award here. Awesome. This is for everyone else. I saw a client the other day who reminded me that not everyone knows how to perform oral on women with that extra oomph. So, I decided to share the delights. Communication: The First Step Here’s my usual disclaimer: everyone